When Men Stop Calling - Expert Tips on What to Do When Your Man Doesn't Call You

Published: 28th October 2009
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When men stop calling, most women panic. We've all been in this situation at some point. We're involved with a fantastic man, we think he may be the one, and suddenly out of the blue he just doesn't call as much as he used to. Calling it frustrating is an understatement. Is there anything you can do though that will make your guy call you more and continue to call even after the newness of the relationship has worn away? There actually is. There are a few things a woman can do that will make her utterly irresistible in the eyes of her guy.

The number one mistake women make when men stop calling is they call those men up. We think nothing of picking up the phone and calling a man if we haven't heard from him in awhile. Most of the time, when a woman resorts to this tactic, the man isn't going to answer. It will go to voicemail, she'll leave a message and he won't call back. If a man has stopped calling you, don't hunt him down. Delete his number from your phone and move on. If you can do this, and stick with it, don't be surprised if you hear from him before long.

What most women don't recognize is that many men use the telephone as a tool to test a woman. If they've been dating someone and they're getting the sense that she's already falling in love, they'll pull back a little to gauge her reaction. Your guy may have already done this. He says he'll call on a specific day, it passes without word. The next day comes and still no call, so you call him. Once you do that he knows that you're crazy about him and you instantly lose appeal. Men want to work to win a woman's heart. They want you to make it challenging to them. If he doesn't call when he says he will, ignore it. Don't pick up the phone, don't dial his number and don't get a friend to do it for you. Get busy doing other things. Once he realizes that you're not hunting him down, he'll come looking for you.

You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. Find out when you should be calling your man.

You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to call him is so that he'll find you irresistible.

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