Should You Call Him Or Wait? - The Calling Rules Women Ought to Follow

Published: 28th October 2009
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Should you call him or should you wait? How many of us have asked this very question when dating a terrific guy? The scenario is almost always the same. You meet a compatible guy, you two go out a few times, you really hit if off, he says he'll call and days pass without a word. Try as we might, most of us end up breaking the calling rules and we call him. Rarely does this end well. Actually in most cases it ends up with the woman feeling embarrassed and kicking herself for being too overly eager. So what's a woman to do if days or weeks pass without a word from the man of her dreams?

In almost every case, the answer to the question of should you call him or wait is wait. As much as we want to make excuses for why he hasn't called, the fact of the matter is that if a man is really into a woman, you can't hold him back from calling. Granted, some men like to play a little hard to get and in those cases they'll wait a few days or even beyond a week, but they'll still call. If he has your number and he said that he'd call, don't call him. Many men actually test a woman to see if she will call and if you fail the test, you'll lose any hope for a future with that man.

The test is really quite simple and it's designed to determine how desperate we are and how much we are already smitten with the man in question. If you two have gone out a few times and he says he'll call, he may let a longer time elapse before he does pick up the phone to dial your number because he wants to see how you'll react. If you're already crazy about him you may call him after the first or second day has passed without him calling. If you do this, you instantly become less interesting to him. He wants you to play hard to get and he wants you to not be anxious for his attention. If you let a day pass, two days, a week or more without calling him, he'll become more interested in you. If you want to make him want you even more don't say a word about what took him so long. The more challenging you become to him, the more he'll chase you.

You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. Find out when you should be calling your man.

You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to call him is so that he'll find you irresistible.

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