How to Get Him to Call You - Dating Advice For Women

Published: 28th October 2009
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Unfortunately for women men don't come with an instruction manual. Instead we are forced to muddle through our relationships trying to figure out how best to deal with the man in our lives. For many women they struggle most with the issue of telephone calls. As much as we want to just pick up the phone and call the man we're involved with, that's rarely, if ever, a good idea. Men read a lot into how a woman handles calls and how anxious she is to hear from him. If you are tired of waiting for your guy to call and you don't want to appear overly desperate by calling him non-stop, is there anything you can do to get him to call you? There is.

No one wants to turn their relationship into a game of one-upmanship. It's necessary at times though especially when it comes to the subject of how to get him to call you. Asking him to call is one approach you can take but it's not the best. If you ask him you are sending him a clear signal that you need to hear from him and that his lack of communication is important enough for you to mention it. If a man senses or sees this, it's going to show him that he has control over you. He knows that you are willing to do just about anything to get his attention and are waiting patiently, or impatiently, for him to call. You never want a man to know this, even if it is true.

By far the easiest way to get him to call you is to not call him. It's really that simple. If you stop calling the man you are involved with, he will start calling you. He's bound to when he doesn't hear from you. His mind will start to wonder where you've gotten to and he may even jump to the conclusion that you are beginning to lose interest in him. If that's the case he'll be calling and calling more than he ever has before.

You need to always remember that men and women view phone calls, emails and text in very different ways. If you make the mistake of calling too frequently, at the wrong time or before he's ready to hear from you, you can actually turn him off. Women unwittingly ruin their chances of a future with a man because they are too over eager to hear from him. Don't let this happen to you. Find out when you should be calling your man.

You may think that there's no consequence when you pick up the phone to call the man in your life, but there is. Men pay close attention to when women call them and they'll make assumptions about you based on that. Learn when the perfect time to call him is so that he'll find you irresistible.

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